It's official - I'm in Shanghai for what should be "going forward". I'm with one of our retail clothing brand groups to be part of their marketing efforts. I'm seeing a Chinese tutor 3 times a week to get my language up to speed and at work have been learning about how Chinese consumers think. Also I have a great and supportive team to learn and grow with. Couldn't have asked for a better situation.
Must mention that I got a lot of advice about how to "work in China", but I have really just been myself and feel like it's worked out better than well. Think all this time abroad and being around people of different cultures and expectations has helped me have an open mind. I ask questions, listen and treat people with respect - this has been a successful formula regardless of situation. Also, never underestimate the power of a smile to diffuse a situation and a written thank you card to show appreciation.
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| A present my team gave me. It sits on my desk right next to the computer monitor =) |
On the lifestyle front, I've been here one month now and it already feels like home. I actually unpacked my bags for the first time in almost a year! It's calming to open my closet and see shirts hanging and pants folded. I even picked up a bike (only $50US!) to get around on. My first time riding a bike in years and I will honestly admit I felt joy like a kid riding it - think Jerry Maguire singing in the car.
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| Ain't she a beauty? Came with a basket and bell too! |
And I joined a friend's basketball team called - the Crazy 88's - so I get to play 2-3 times a week now. I'm within walking distance to the office and just a 30 minute subway ride to the city. Not shabby at all. The weather in Shanghai is perfect right now and, between nights out on the town and days at the office, we find time to picnic at the park!
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| Keeping it together long enough to take a guys picture. Yes, that is a Salmon-colored shirt. |
As for the Lee family, my dad not too long ago moved to South China for a project, my sister is in NYC working for a fashion group, and my mom is still home in Northern California holding down the fort. It's tough for us being all scattered about the world, but we've found ways to stay in touch. Now, every time we see each other, we appreciate one another that much more.
Funny that whenever I call my parents, the inevitable advice about relationships comes. It's all good though. If you know me well, you know that I'm a family-first guy at heart, and would like nothing more than to settle down. But I'm in no rush. Last week, I actually obliged to a family friend's request and went on a blind date. Good story and will share with anyone who asks!
Realized some random habits I've started such as taking vitamins everyday and wearing face moisturizer. I read the paper and take walks at lunch. I guess I'm starting to act my age - or at least more my age. 29 now and hoping there won't be any mental breakdown when I turn 30!
All in all, life's pretty damn good. I enjoy work, appreciate having the great friends that I do, and most of all am thankful everyday for having a wonderful and supportive family. I know this has sounded a bit like a wrap-up post, but it does feel like a new chapter has begun. And the best part about it is that the story has only just begun. Cheezy, yes. But those who know me know that I've no hesitation to cheez-it. HA!
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| Fun times with new friends at Mr. X! That's a game room out here. |
Lastly, if anyone's worried about me and the h7n9 virus in China, I'm in good shape and have been able to outrun the zombies. I've put to practice everything I learned in Zombieland and always stretch before I leave the house + double tap when necessary. Thanks for your concerns though. I'll be fine!
